Women are Naturally Selfish

Recently my friends criticized me for being a sexist. Don’t get me wrong, i respect women very much and i would never put women down, however i am of the opinion that women are selfish creatures. One friend quickly pointed out that a mothers love, wife’s love is very selfless many a times. However, those are the very traits which i consider points to the fact that women are as a matter of fact selfish. A women would die for HER man, HER children, HER everything, but not when it comes to anybody else, i fear the same does not apply.

Men on the other hand are not naturally selfish, but they are naturally violent. Now to understand my thesis, it is important that the statements are not taken absolutely. There are violent senoritas and there are real selfish bageros,   different individuals have different level of selfishness. Now consider this, the female is a insecure sex, they are almost insecure about everything. Mothers go crazy about their kids because its natural, mothers are naturally crazy about their babies, just like how a hen protects its chicks. This they cant help , they are designed to sacrifice for their babies. But you might not notice this on a very hot, sexy, successful lady… why? because usually this group of ladies are secure of themselves. This is the same kind that would not want t breast feed their babies, why? Selfish… they are too bothered to feed their need to look attractive, so given the option they would not give a damn about the baby.

Compare the above with a man. A man would sacrifice for anybody who depends in him. A man is able to raise any kid, with the same love and affection that he would give his own. Now try recalling your mom or any women at all bitching about somebody elses kid. What about girl boy relationships? Now try noticing around you, when a girl goes gaga over a guy she would not care about anything else on earth, compare that to a guy. Notice most leaders are men? why not women? Cause their selfish, all they think about is themselves, and all that belongs or all that she thinks belongs to her by blood or by commitment. Men on the other hand think about the society, people, thus they usually develop deep undying love for their motherland, politics and all that. Also think about those pious people, most men commit to religious rituals because they are connected with God, women… they just do the rituals to convince themselves that they will get salvation from all the bad mouthing  selfish motivated ills.

Also ever notice how mom’s tend to like their boys more then girls? Why? again selfishness, cause their mind is thinking about security, a son would be able to provide/protect better then a daughter.Women want so many things in life, money, security, security, security, gold, diamond, luxury, status… i bet more women buy insurance then men (yet to be proven). Men just want women… they are always worrying about something, why? because it somehow or another is in their own interest. Im sure many women reading are allready boiling in anger, ill just throw one more thing in before i end. Ever notice how women always portray that their victimized all the time? They know they are the weaker sex, so what works best when your the weakest? Sympathy and self piety, especially against men, cos men are just suckers when it comes to women.

42 Responses

  1. A+

  2. gracias – i guess your the only one who has the guts to say anything at all abt this.

  3. Depending on how you define being selfish, human beings tend to have a variety of needs, which usually leads to the fundamentals of survival instincts. We all are always in need of something at one point or another, so tht should make us all human beings (both men and women) selfish right? If women tending to children is considered selfish, and women not tending to children (hot, sexy but unwilling to breastfeed) also considered selfish, so what defines unselfish act? Every single person fighting for national/society rights? There’s a dynamism in this world, everyone plays different roles for various functional requirements. Your ideology seems rather narrow minded and clearly lacks adequate definitions. Decided to be on the awkward opposition just because you’re not a woman?

    • You missed the whole point. He was giving an analysis, he was not propagating an ideology. It seems like you are the one who is narrow minded for shutting his point out by saying it lacks adequate definition, and hurling accusation that he is taking a side.

      Perhaps you could try to understand his examples and may criticize that. Going up to somebody and telling them that “hey ur idea is lame, ur narrow minded, ur awkward, is simply sooo yesterday.

      I think he made clear his definition of being selfish in the first para itself. Perhaps you might wanna read between the lines and try understanding his text further before easily writing it of by calling it narrow minded.

      • It’s almost impossible not to notice the writer’s chauvinistic tone. I harbour no ill hatred against the writer as you have implied. If you read carefully and objectively while setting your emotions aside, no where have i accused the writer as lame or awkward. Feel free to have your own opinions, however distorted they may be but there is no need to embellish the comment i’ve made. Contradicting examples in the writing which reflect fuzzy thoughts are what i merely questioned. Anyway, your act of standing up for your pal is very impressive, but chauvinism isn’t.

    • When you are in need of something like lot’s of people that means you are selfish. Are you gift from god so that you must fulfill your needs, why do you think you have needs? Because it’s always something that is missing? Why is missing? Aren’t you satisfied for what you have and appreciate it? All of you who thinks someone must fulfill your needs you must emotionally grown up and ask yourself what can you give to world and people and not what you selfish need.

  4. Excellent analysis my friend. I love women with all my heart, or rather desire them for my own selfish needs which can well be theirs too. But they seem to really dislike pleasing people just for the pleasure of giving pleasure. Always something in return.

    I guess we’ll just use each other.

  5. To Subashini,

    Thank you for emotional and outburst. I also thank you for the accusation of chauvinism, and whatever else that you wish to hurl at me. Thank you.

    To the rest…
    Im not sure if i raised this before, but did any of you guys notice how much women love to victimize themselves? Look back into history, since those days till today women use the self victimization tactic to get things to go their way.

    They often like to label guys like me as chauvinist… a male chauvinist. They very swiftly would put across that who ever criticizing them as emotional.

    I am sure Harimau has much better things to be emotional about then petty issues like this.

    Am i a chauvinist? Not at all… i think men are violent creatures, a trait inherent by them.

    You see, the comment by Subashini is a perfect test case. Notice that i was giving an observation, something i have observed for long. She on the other hand, being a female i suppose, was emotional and boiling in anger as she read the last lines of my write up… reacted by victimizing all female by calling me a chauvinist.

    Now, observe.. how she totally ignored the part where i said men have their own load of problem, they are inherently violent as opposed to women being inherently selfish. This is another form of selfishness. Ever had an argument with a women? Ever notice how she only listens to the things she wants to and totally ignores everything else? Same goes here, Subashini was simply acting consistently with her instinct.

    Also notice how she thinks Harimau was embellishing her comment? Once again she is trying to victimize herself by trying to make Harimau look as if he was fiercely defending me, by putting her comment down. Which is untrue, Harimau was merely concerned about her missing the whole point of the write up, which i reasonably think she did. I am disappointed that she has victimized all women by turning my piece into a chauvinist toned writing. Sad that she is unable to accept the observation

  6. Desperado & harimau Tua, both hv no sense or even knowledge bout human especially women. wt they knw xcept hatred n emotional.. pe kne dgn lu ni bro, social life lu fail r dgn kata2 lu cmtu. Knon kata prmpuan 2 victimized themselves, pnah cbe kenal prmpuan2 atas kata2 di buku2 & pbuatan2 mrk di luar, brpe byk lu knal?? Kesian mak lu. u said bout history–his ‘story’, notice dt? Sejarah mne lu refer? spesifik r skit jgn men pukul rata je..

    “Also ever notice how mom’s tend to like their boys more then girls? Why? again selfishness, cause their mind is thinking about security, a son would be able to provide/protect better then a daughter.Women want so many things in life, money, security…”- zmn jahiliah ada r kot, tp bukan sume, so stop make a silly-stupid statement. Even lelaki (Nabi Muhammad) bkahwin dgn Siti Khadijah atas sbb ekonomi, dgn (Aisyah) atas sbb pengaruh & kslmtn dll. come on man, wt r u talkin’ about?? it does happened but not 2 women alone.. u cn be a sexist but try not 2 b a fool

    “they are always worrying about something, why? because it somehow or another is in their own interest”- manusia sume ada keresahan2ny sndri.. manusia di hospital bahagia je xrisau apa2. so, stop to specify it only 2 women.

    Ever notice how women always portray that their victimized all the time? – dh ktinggalan zmn r statement u ni bro, agkny kurg kwn2 x lu ni.. bykkn mbaca lg bro.

  7. “A women would die for HER man, HER children, HER everything, but not when it comes to anybody else, i fear the same does not apply.”- her man (manusia2), her children (anak2 setiap bangsa) and her everything (her inclusive religion, friends etc) 4 a better place.. a creature wit lots of love. Can man do dt? except 4 let evrybody died cz as u said “they are naturally violent.” – heh, dt explained y thre r many disasters happened/ happening/ wil happen here n there.. haha.. byk sgt kontradiksi dlm ayt2 lu ni bro..

    “Notice most leaders are men? why not women? Cause their selfish, all they think about is themselves, and all that belongs or all that she thinks belongs to her by blood or by commitment. Men on the other hand think about the society, people, thus they usually develop deep undying love for their motherland, politics and all that. Also think about those pious people, most men commit to religious rituals because they are connected with God, women… they just do the rituals to convince themselves that they will get salvation from all the bad mouthing selfish motivated ills.”- mmg sah lu ni xmbaca. kesian… hahaha! 4 god sake, bca r psl sufisme, mostly women yg jg mdidik lelaki yg dtg blajar..utk siapa? dt u called selfish women, mngajar utk masyarakat! tahu? jika xtahu, xmengapa, blaja r bro..blum tlambat

    • Eh aku pulak yang di basuh. Lu ni ape hal bro? Dah telebih pandai ker? Kalau u ni banyak membaca dan tera sangat pehal layan diskopi? Pi la tempat lain… nampak sangat tak membaca, ape ke jadahnya yang kau nampak?

      Kan itu obervation dia? Ape kaitan dengan membaca? Evidently this is his own observation and experience. Nothing wrong with penning down ones observation.

      Kalau u ade membaca sangat, apsal komen kau ni macam emotional reaction jer? Kalau nak quote tu, quote lah lengkap and prove your authority. Takat nak kata orang tak cukup baca baik tak payah.

      Yang kau kritik aku skali tu apehal? Ape salahnya aku cuba menjelaskan pandangan Desperado? Adakah itu bererti aku juga mempunyai pandangan yang sama dengan dia?

  8. I think this write up may be somewhat poorly worded. ‘Selfish’ implies a focus on self to the exclusion of all others, i.e. without regard to what might be in the interests of others.

    I would suggest that this is too strong a wording. I believe that very often it is possible for us to act in our self-interest while also acting in the interests of others. This goes to the difference between what is selfish, and some classes of self-interest. Let me illustrate.

    It is possible for to deduce what, of all the things I might like can be considered “good” by applying a simple test. If I acted with the highest altruism, would I want this for everybody else, and if one person enjoyed such a thing, would it disadvantage another. In principles, societies often seek to deliver these goods, and people accept that they should order their lives to maximise the advantages to themselves while also providing for others.

    This is necessarily a very brief explanation of a fairly complex argument, but it suffices to convey the problem with the write up.

  9. To Sexy Jenny,

    thank you, i appreciate the sound judgment very much. Unlike some arrogant readers who cant seem to understand my observation, you have put forward a criticism i find very rationale. I agree with your view, perhaps selfish is less accurate. Once again i thank you for your wisdom.

  10. Eh, i thought desperado n harimau is d sme person, bukan ke? hahaha! Rileks bro, lu yg emotional.. aku dh sertakan fakta sekali tu supaya lu x menerawang n general sgt. Btw, obeservations come with responsibility, since used dis medium–cyberspace, so u shud answer b responsible on wt u “observed”, dn take it 4 granted. i asked u 2 read cz kau ni cm spoiled je dlm geng diskopi yg lain, tulisan psl bab ni mentah sgt, xde kajian in-detailed, walhal lu ni kan bijak..??

    Sebut psl altruism, i bet u hv read aristotle on dt issue? or even other pre-socratic philospohers? Yes, i hv a slightly same ground with u rgarding “that they should order their lives to maximise the advantages to themselves while also providing for others.”, but dn u think even utilitarianism also ending up in serving themselves than others? i dn believed in structural-functionalist idea n sex dichotomy in any matters xpecially as pointed by writer poorly. Pls, show ur concrete idea with a tough basis not make an overgeneralization.

    • To Iqbal… Thank you for your critics. I am afraid i am not as competent as you believe me to be. I also thank you for accusing my friend and i as having no sense or even knowledge about human especially women. I guess you are far more qualified in this case to disqualify me from my humanity. I however assure you that i have no hatred or emotions to waste on a person of your level nor even any part of the human race.
      I am clearly not your match. I express my deepest gratitude and thanks for taking time to read my mere observation. I would also take into deep consideration that you find me to be a spoil in Diskopi. I will accordingly stop writing in Diskopi. I also thank you for calling me a fool and a sexist. I will try my very best to not share and foolish statements or observation with the world at large. I also promise you that i will never make an overgeneralisation as long as i live. This has been a life changing experience for me. I feel deeply humiliated and immensely stupid. I will execute the necessary steps to improve. Once again i thank you very much. Your wisdom and opinion is very much appreciated.

      • Yang kau gi layan mamat tu apehal? Personal attacks are signs of weakness. He is probably some sort of retard trying to crack you up. Why take it seriously ? Definitely a jackass from our circle of friends who just simply cant stand you.

      • Praise the lord theres guys out there that have the same conclusion as me..

    • I am assuming that you are referring to my comment. If so, no i am afraid i have not read aristotle nor any pre-socratic philosophers. Therefore i have no idea what your talking about. I do not share any ground with you, and it is non of my business what your believe in.

  11. Ive seen nothing but self centered woman in small town’s,
    they will go for some nobody that has no personality,
    or brains,
    why do woman go for a loser and then compromise thier life away?

  12. Women do tend to be rather selfish indeed. I have expressed lots of love to women, but they will never show caring or love for the sake of it. A guy will call you upon the phone just to see how you’re doing, women will never do that. They want money, clothes, expensive jewelry, and you cant figure them out often changing their minds for no apparent reason. They wont be nice to guys just for the sake of it(only their boyfriends, husbands family etc). They often prefer the guy with money, (often being cheated on and abused, rather then one that will treat them right)all for the sake of security). Yeah their selfish.

    • You know, the truth is, it is the other way around. All of what you said are a man’s doing.

      “They often prefer the guy with money, (often being cheated on and abused, rather then one that will treat them right)all for the sake of security).” – And the guy without money don’t cheat and abuse? Almost all of you do that, poor or rich.

      “A guy will call you upon the phone just to see how you’re doing, women will never do that.” – And if they are calling you to see how you doing you will say they are too needy or possessive or something like that. I then wonder if you really know what you want in women?

      And please oh please, there are a lot of women who are already working for themselves and their families. What women generation are you seeing? We want money, clothes, jewelry and most of the times we work hard for them, what’s the problem? On the other hand, you want cars, tattoos, gadgets etc.

  13. As far as I know, actually most infanticides are commited by women, and in general mothers are slightly more likely to kill boys than girls.

  14. I have met heaps of selfish women. But I haven’t met a single violent man in my entire life. Met a fair few violent and aggressive women though. I have absolutely no ide when you come up with your views.

  15. its a bit unfortunate but I couldn’t help but agree to everything the writer said about women and selfishness. Damn right. I’n so glad somebody had the fucking courage to write something like that. Its all about them. As long as they are getting what they want, theyre happy. fucking bitches…

  16. They are con artist

  17. With men that have been in my life, as long as they could dip their wick then they were happy. That’s all they cared about- they’re that shallow. I go out to work mate, I’ve got a life outside work. Do you work, or do you just blog all day slagging off women? Get a life you poor sad creature. Creature yourself, you idiot.

  18. Dads like boys more than girls too. It’s common in every culture, including ours. And also women cheat more often than men and men still hate being cheated on and abused as a general rule, which is why they become violent to women. But women still do it anyway, because as a general rule, women are supposed to make men get very jealous and want them even more. In addition, men hate being used and taken advantage of by women. It hurts their masculinity.

  19. iv been reading this now for about 30mins well tryin because im up with the littlen of 5 months and so far everything said about women to my knowlage is TRUE! if thats unfortunate to the women reading it to bad blame the other women, iv gatherd that women are very selfish and are waste full creatures okay man may waste but for the benifit of others, a woman would see the a million ppl die so she can wear a dimond! okay men took part in such selfishness but why and for what reason?? to satisfy the WOMAN! it is true men are selfish we should not! go to the extream to get a women they dont for us plus its 2012 we dont need to, Really guys think about it, They implye thoughts on us with a psyc degree of mind control men knowing we would carry out the act in the name of love whilst women sit back reap the rewards and point the finger wen it all goes wrong. i agree with the 1st article men are violent an women know this, they know that they are selfish too thats why wen u get in an argument they cry…. not bcz they are hurt bcz they know they are wrong! and have messed up big time lol plus they arnt the weaker sex we are equil on different grounds- while we was physically advancing ( inheriting violence ), women were advancing in the art of deciet bit like evolution lol. interesting but not wen ur on the end of the lies n deciet! its abit diff wen they are on the end of our jab lol. thank you and AMEN… u like what i did there? lol

  20. Wow. Alot of these comments (and probably the artical) is written through bitterness. I am a woman and I am also very unselfish. I have often given up time and money to care for or help people who have almost no connection to me simply because I don’t like people being hurt. I would risk my life for most people when it comes down to it as I couldn’t live with myself if someone came to harm that i could prevent. And I’m only 17 but I know that I will never have a man provide for me because I am a smart girl and I can and have always taken care of myself. Clearly most of you have been turned down by women and like to make yourself feel better by pretending that its nothing about you, its just women are sexist and want rich men. That is as stupid as when guys say women must be lesbians for turning you down. You all need to grow up or you will die alone.

    • Agree, I guess men want more a woman can already give. All I also read are generalizations without any proofs. I don’t know who women are they seeing with all the accusations. Coz from experience, I have seen a lot who are really selfless.

      “You all need to grow up or you will die alone.” Well you know, they are late to grow up and be mature than women. That’s why in our country the legal age for men is 21 and to women is 18. And some, with age that you expect them to be mature, they are still immature.

      In my 28 years of life I have never depended on any men except to my father of course when I was still a kid. But even then, my mother also contributed to our growth. She also worked especially in later parts of our childhood. And at the same time working she also do the household chores, coz most men will think it is not their responsibility to do household chores even if the women also shares the providing responsibility with him. So I dunno why they are thinking we are after their money if we can provide money to ourselves. Just another unbiased accusations they are throwing.

      In our country there are a lot of working moms here who provides for the family. There are a lot of single moms who don’t need a single penny from their child’s father just to support them. And there are many mothers here who do the multitasking of providing for the family, doing the household chores and taking care of her children.

      And that another accusation of women making themselves look like the victim? Reread your comments please, poor men. You are the one posing as victims here. What are your intentions for doing so? To get sympathy or to get more of what you want from women?

  21. WOMEN ARE ALL SELFISH BITCHES AND DEY ALL WANT POWER AND COTROL. WOMEN ARE NOT INFERIOR TO MEN. DEY PRETEND TO BE DA INFERIOR SEX SO DEY CAN ENSLAVE MEN.

  22. Frankly, I don’t think a woman would sacrifice or die for a child or husband. It would not be in her best interest. She may be nicer when it suits her, that’s it

  23. Frankly, I don’t think a woman would sacrifice or die for a child or husband. It would not be in her best interest. She may be nicer when it suits her, that’s it

  24. Some people need to get to higher evolution. It is not always about your needs, it’s about giving love, giving for free other things, caring, empathy with other people.
    It is true that lot’s of people are selfish, that is because like animals, self conscience is not present, ego always thinks for “I” need.

    Work on yourself is hardest thing, you can go with shortcut but won’t be happy. Happiness equal working on self equal giving you to others.
    Life experience, separation from sheep’s, emotional maturity, higher self conscience, letting go “I need”, etc. you need to become the better person. Believe in yourself.

  25. As a woman, I should defend our side, right? But I honestly think women are selfish, me included. Haha! I stumbled upon your blog because I wanted to know WHY WE are selfish. Thanks for this post! This has been fun!!!

  26. lol…veeEess i love that. i guess we just have to live with it them ladies were designed that way

  27. Before i write my comment, allow me to clarify several important facts;

    1. I love my mom, sisters, sister in law, and my new upcoming niece (if the baby is a girl).
    2. I am not a chauvinistic neither a sexist.
    3. I am not gay. I like women. I need a woman in my life.

    I personally agree with what the authors claimed on women are naturally selfish and men are violent. Biologically, you cannot denied. With present cutting edge neurosciences and related fields, more evidence indicating that biological differences between male and female did directly contributed to those common traits.

    The level of selfishness and violent are varied among people. I agree.

    One have to remember, if a man are not selfish and naturally concern about the society and environment, why there are morally corrupt and selfish men?

    This is where my theory take place.

    Most men are influenced by women in their life. It can be mother, wife, sister, mother in law, sister in law, daughter or else. This source of selfishness directly influenced the violent and rationality of that man.

    Let me give you one example;

    – A men who strongly influenced by his selfish mother may become more violent and more selfish.
    – A men who after married that strongly influenced by his selfish wife may become more violent and more selfish.
    – A men who are naturally rational and calm can be more violent and selfish after married under the influenced of his selfish wife.
    – A violent men can be less violent and more calm after he got his first daughter.

    What i am trying to say is man and women is continuously interacted and those selfishness and violent varied because of that interaction.

    Selfishness are needed in certain condition. So was violent.

    Every values need to be apply in a right way, otherwise it will be harmful.

    If anesthetic is use for relieving pain during medical surgery, it is a good thing.

    If anesthetic is use to make people unconscious and rob their money, it is a bad thing.

  28. Well with most women today being so very high maintenance, independent, selfish, spoiled, greedy, narcissist, picky, and very money hungry, really does speak for itself. Real Losers too, especially since many of them think their God’s gift to men which their Not.

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